http://megbunten.wordpress.com/2007/10/10/you-dont-have-to-do-it-all-learning-to-say-no/ Mon, 11 May 2009 15:55:01 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://megbunten.wordpress.com/2007/10/10/you-dont-have-to-do-it-all-learning-to-say-no/#comment-92 Create Your Own Paradigm Shifts By Dumping the Negative | Slow Down Fast Today! ~ David B. Bohl Wed, 16 Jan 2008 11:01:13 +0000 http://megbunten.wordpress.com/2007/10/10/you-dont-have-to-do-it-all-learning-to-say-no/#comment-92 [...] Lesson #1 – Lose the “if it’s meant to be, it’s up to me” mindset! The world will not stop revolving if you aren’t personally involved. In fact, I personally pledge to you that it will not. Sometimes it is perfectly acceptable to be a participant of an event in life and not the person who is doing it! We miss so much of our lives (and the lives of our family – you remember, those people who live in the same house as you do) because we think we always have to be doing something. We don’t care what it is, just as long as we are involved in doing it ourselves. It’s time to just sit back, relax and be a human being – it is perfectly acceptable now and then to let someone else carry the torch for awhile! Don’t be afraid to say no! [...] [...] Lesson #1 – Lose the “if it’s meant to be, it’s up to me” mindset! The world will not stop revolving if you aren’t personally involved. In fact, I personally pledge to you that it will not. Sometimes it is perfectly acceptable to be a participant of an event in life and not the person who is doing it! We miss so much of our lives (and the lives of our family – you remember, those people who live in the same house as you do) because we think we always have to be doing something. We don’t care what it is, just as long as we are involved in doing it ourselves. It’s time to just sit back, relax and be a human being – it is perfectly acceptable now and then to let someone else carry the torch for awhile! Don’t be afraid to say no! [...]

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